tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post1992765457307871043..comments2016-08-07T19:57:49.525-07:00Comments on Whats For Dinner?: Back at Square OneGinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02121329894570974858noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-7444519528406546952012-04-06T21:19:28.142-07:002012-04-06T21:19:28.142-07:00He sounds sweet though! So that's fun. He obvi...He sounds sweet though! So that's fun. He obviously has good taste in women! How were your travels?Pish Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13777846744497845820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-83331757376910754952012-04-06T13:06:53.732-07:002012-04-06T13:06:53.732-07:00Normally I would agree with you. I don't mind...Normally I would agree with you. I don't mind telling someone, "hey, I need alone time." But on this occasion, he waited for four hours at his friends house until I got off work so he could see me. I would feel like a huge bitch to cancel then. I need to be proactive and tell him once a week is just fine. We don't need to see each other more than that.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02121329894570974858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-65996471989460755552012-04-06T12:04:52.074-07:002012-04-06T12:04:52.074-07:00Well I'm going to say that you said he might b...Well I'm going to say that you said he might be a little needy four times. If I have learned anything it is to ALWAYS trust my instincts. If you are feeling like you are letting your boundaries down too soon THEN YOU ARE. And that can be disastrous early in the relationship because it's hard to put them back up later.<br /><br />I could just be projecting of course, but I nullify my boundaries because I like the attention and want him to like me and don't want to push him away. But then I end up with a guy who has zero respect for my boundaries. You've only been dating for like 3 weeks. If you felt like "farting the night away" (love that!) you should feel comfortable enough to say "hey J, I'm not feeling hanging out tonight. I think I'm going to do my own thing." <br /><br />That way he gets that you have boundaries and you feel that you are in control of you. Otherwise he will walk over your boundaries without even knowing that it bothers you and you'll feel resentful.<br /><br />BUT that's cute that you met someone you like and you guys are hanging out :) Feel free to disagree with anything I said and I CAN'T WAIT for your foodie post!!! :)Pish Poshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13777846744497845820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-51590021479699958632012-04-06T11:24:48.262-07:002012-04-06T11:24:48.262-07:00Haha! Touche Cindy! Its true. Why am I griping ...Haha! Touche Cindy! Its true. Why am I griping about someone who finds me wonderful and is actually a thoughtful person? My crazy girl behavior is kicking in. There is no drama so apparently I am creating it! ;)Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02121329894570974858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-26516992217477378062012-04-06T10:48:59.471-07:002012-04-06T10:48:59.471-07:00Why not just relax and enjoy? If you stay in contr...Why not just relax and enjoy? If you stay in control of the situation, it could be fun. And, if he likes you in your sweats eating leftovers...really? REALLY? Come on, who knows, maybe something good will come of it.Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07934994050216386470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-90975351680681835222012-04-06T09:17:49.960-07:002012-04-06T09:17:49.960-07:00Yes...most likely I will bring the crazy first. I...Yes...most likely I will bring the crazy first. I hate people invading my space. Ms.G needs a lot of alone time.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02121329894570974858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321407216228597851.post-43410016536922814572012-04-06T08:48:01.902-07:002012-04-06T08:48:01.902-07:00I think you will bring the crazy shit first. Just ...I think you will bring the crazy shit first. Just saying....;)Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02957252119819735781noreply@blogger.com